Yes Or No To Premarital Sex Is Choosing Your Happiness

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Many individuals are in relationship and scratch their head on the question that whether they should indulge in any kind of fornication related activity with their partners. The answer is very uncomfortable for the Indian society. Sex is something that is been considered taboo and indecent. If you are in a relationship and have pretty much same thought about sex then it is better you take your time and indulge in it when you are comfortable with the thought of doing it.

Premarital sex is as natural as post marriage sex. When two individuals are in a relationship and feel the urge to express his or her emotions through touch then it is perfectly normal. Premarital sex is unnatural if your partner is not ready or you are not ready.

One of the most common thought that rise in minds of individuals who are in relationship is “what will happen if after doing it they break up?” The answer to this question is simple and tricky at the same time.

Firstly, if your relationship hit rocks and both of you do not find happiness with each other than breaking up is a good option and not letting the sex affect your decision. Living a miserable life just because you lost your virginity to someone, with whom you were in love at that time, is not at all an intelligent decision. Having sex does not make you bad in anyways. You have to understand the fact that if you are going to spend your life with someone then what should matter to you and your partner is you share a strong bond of love and happiness.

Now coming to a different aspect is the trust. It is a cornerstone of a relationship. If you love your partner and know that relationship is not because of sex but because of love then you can easily make a clear decision of doing it. If you have any doubt about indulging in such kind of act then it is better you wait. Just do not let sex affect you in any adverse way because, if you are not ready for it then you would blame yourself and make your life worse for yourself.

At the end, what matters most is your happiness. Saying yes or no to premarital sex is your personal choice. As far as I am concerned, I do not find anything wrong in premarital sex and I am ready for it.