Missing the link

“I am trying so hard and I am not getting what I want.” Every one of us must have heard it from someone mouth and in fact most of us have even faced this situation. From blaming the luck to abusing the obstacles, we do all kinds of things which create negative energy around us. Sometimes the impact of it is so high that our loved ones start maintaining distance from us and we thought it’s because of our situation. Do you really think whatever we heard or think in that situation was right? If so, then re-think.

Life is not a journey of ups and ups and in fact it’s a journey of ups and down and none of us wants to go down.  We always want better and this desire leads us to a path where we find it hard to get the normal things. Whenever something went wrong we start trying harder and this mess the whole thing up. Rather than having patience, we jump to try our full potential and we didn’t even notice that we are just putting lot of manual efforts nothing else. Sitting idly just to make sure that we spent time on thinking or doing some extra work by sacrificing private moments are only results to agony.

We can be wiser by just maintaining patience and start thinking what went wrong. This will help us in realizing the missing link of life. As everyone says that it’s easy to say and hard to implement and I too accede the thought but I don’t think there is any harm in practicing patience. If you think you have better plan then please think how many plans you are having for comparison. Once you are sure about what you will do then start doing as it will help you in putting all your effort in executing the plan. So, find out the missing link first and then create your working plan. You can consult your friend, family, soul mate for helping you out with alternate plans. After all more the options you have, better you will choose.