Solitude of nothing

Sometimes in life our all options to stay positive vanished and the dark clouds are on your head. I don’t know how I manage to get these dark situations so often and I need to figure out soon. There is nothing left in the world if you are not finding happiness in doing anything. Here case applies to me.

From the past weeks I am trying to move life but it is not moving an inch. My desperate efforts results in catastrophic results and I am losing my sanity. My heart runs over my brain and they both ended up tangled leaving me in the misery. External forces are also having their share and they are making sure that they won’t leave any stone unturned. In search of positive complacent life I start visiting websites like speaking tree and start reading the spiritual way. I raid it somewhere that reading spiritual texts enlightens the darkness of soul. As soon as I start reading the texts which I used to read it long back I am again trapped in the illusion world.

They call it Maya; from Maya to Moksha they have way full of misery and grievances. I smiled at myself that to avoid pain and misery I am reading about the path which is full of misery. I don’t know how to deal with such situations as nothing yield me the pleasure. Not even mesmerizing concert of Hariharan which I attended alone. I am lagging behind everything and that too in the most critical time of my life.  

Whenever I got puzzled I find a solution lies inside me but this time I am clueless.  I don’t know from where I should start or what should I drop. I checked my routine I checked my actions I checked my words but still not figuring out the issues. May be I need to give some time to this nothing situation and so that I can start from the scratch. If you are having any suggestions to me then please write it to me as your suggestion can prove to be vital for me. 

Why not I?

I saw you and I start loving you a lot  

I express the feeling I express the thoughts

I told you my dreams I describe emotions

I share the notions which I shared with none

You had your words, you rejected my proposal

Around your no, my whole world swirls

I broke up into the pieces

I lost what I needed

You told me that without family consensus

 You won’t go into relation

I accept the bitter truth and I respected reason

You maintain the distance and made me alone

I was punished for the crime unknown

Then you told me that you moved in a relationship

Who look far better than I

Your words put me in despair

As now I only think

Why not I?

Why not I?

Refresh button for life

Life is awkwardly poised and you do not know how to get over to it, seems like you are sharing my situation. From the past few weeks, I am writing the new ways of self-motivation and this is because nowadays I find myself in awkward situations. I do not know how I manage to enter into that but I am seriously stuck in it. I seriously find no way soon and in fact rather than ending the misery, I always focus on temporary relief.

Trust me I do not know how end this misery and hence I go for temporary solution. Recently I had realized that I did not do anything significant in my life and with the current approach, I am not supposed to do any significant in the upcoming years as well.

Considering the current predicaments, I can conclude that it will take another birth to do anything significant. I need a refresh button in life. What to do to get refresh? I asked few of my friends to help me out and got some unusual responses. Some suggested that I should go high on weeds while others want me to take holidays. Many are in favor of me reading plenty of books specially bhagwat gita to refresh my life. I do not know which option to take but I know one thing that weed or any other form of addiction is not the solution. I do not know how to get refreshed. I cannot concentrate on my hobbies I cannot enjoy music, I felt suffocated with the friends and everything is start ruining.

May be I need someone who can give me word of wise advice or I need someone to take out my frustration. Both the actions are not suited and I think only way is to go for hibernation for this weekend. No phone calls, no internet access, no get together, no book reading nothing. All I do is to spend the entire weekend without coming in contact with anyone. Let see if this can work or not. If you have any idea to refresh my life, please comment me. May be your idea can work.  Hope this would end and my life will get back on track.

Talent-less toy

She asked her mommy to look the toy

Which the salesmen showed in coy

The toy was average not that great

He doesn't have flickering eye

He doesn't have mimicking effects

The body was unshaped

The cloths were old

But still the toy

Was waiting to be sold

He can't run, he can't fly

He looks ugly when he cry

Everything he tries to cover

But nothing about him impresses others

After looking for sometime

Her mom asked

Do you want that toy?

She rejected the offer and

Start her search for toys again

The toy was placed in box again

I felt pity for that talent-less toy

Until I find that I too was a talent-less toy

  

Even out the odds

After a long session of desolation, finally a ray of hope arrives! It is always a beautiful feeling when you realize that the odd times are out and you can now make fresh beginning. There are many in the world who finds it extremely hard to overcome with the trauma and they try to resist the change. Unfortunately, they cannot resist the change. I was also in that category and I was trying to fix the issues to continue with the existing life but all my effort ended without result. 

Failure does not cause any problem but the feelings afterward are the real cause of misery. You feel completely lost and after every consulting session from your family and friends, you start doubting on the abilities. Situation becomes worst when you start reading motivational stories as you start considering yourself as a de-motivated person. People do not know how to react in such situation and then comes a either phase when person starts doing something unexpected or start waiting for something to happen. In both the cases, he adopts change.

Once you prepare to adopt change, everything else starts falling to places. If you continue your reluctance then you will extend your desolation period. I was a bit reluctant to change and then I realized that I have to accept the fact everything else is changed and now it is the time for me to change. I was living odds and once I added change, everything evens out. It is simple maths add one to an odd number and it become even. The only problem is that you have to pick which one you will add, as every addition will have its own consequences. People may call it balancing the life but I would rather prefer call it even out the odds.  So if you are also facing the odds just search for one element to add and even out the odds. You can also share your way of dealing with odds so that I can also find one more way of dealing with odds and I will use it in my life.

Missing the ex – Is it natural?

After a broke up every one will suggest you to forget the ex and will ask you to have a fresh beginning. Well there is no issue with it and in fact it is always helpful in avoiding depression state. Some takes time to get a move on while some starts moving when they are in relationship. I always hear people saying that they miss the ex and they cry for them in the night. Most of the time people recall the habits of the ex or the liking and reveals that they are still in love with them. Personally speaking I don’t think so and it is because for me you don’t need help of any particular thing to remember someone.

 I too had gone this feeling and I find out that you miss someone when you are alone. It is not necessary that you miss someone only after the relation ends. Recently one of my friends had a break up and he is feeling helpless by the memories of his relationship. He is asking every individual that is it natural to remind her or I am being weak. Many of them are saying that you are weak and hence you are thinking in that manner otherwise there is no point in missing her. I don’t think the same, and in fact if he is not in this state then I will be surprised. He loved that girl and I think she will miss him too.

Missing someone after broke up is completely natural and I don’t think any person who feel love or affection never miss the person. It’s all about acting in real life. If you want the image of person who is unmoved by the feeling of pain then you need to pretend to be strong but if you are not then it is really a good thing to give time to this feeling. After all it is also a feeling and it deserve some precious moments of your life. So, miss your ex and try to remember the good memories so that you can smile even in the pain. 

Inspire the voters through IT

IT is becoming necessity of the world and we cannot imagine our life without it. Those days are gone when internet is a luxury to have and now IT is life. From paying bills to wishing friend we can do almost everything through IT. Those things which are not made possible a decade back is now possible by the social media. Ever since the Facebook and other social networks introduced it brings a revolutionary change in the world. IT is now become an essential tool of business and we cannot deny its significance. Nowadays the social media apps like WECHAT are playing a crucial role in the individual’s life.

Social media apps are strong platform to carry the campaign and to inspire the mass audience. If the social media app is been used in the efficient manner then it would provide better results than social network ad campaign. The reason is simple because the social media apps are used by real users and the number of fake accounts is low as compared to social networking websites. Let’s talk about social media apps and vote awareness campaign. Election seasons are on the EC of India is willing to inspire the mass to go and vote. What if they use social media for vote awareness campaign?

The best way to initiate such campaign is to introduce some stickers in social media apps related to the voting. Intelligently created funny images of common man having proud on his face after voting can motivate the individual to caste vote. A small vote message sent over social media apps with a request to forward it to all will help the EC to reach the mass. Giving vote is a noble cause and it is a right of every voter to caste vote and to choose the right person.  Generally the voters forget to vote or have some issues with their cards and they ended up without doing voting. If the information helping them to remember the vote dates and to trouble shoot the issue is passed then they will surely go and vote.

Many people don’t have voter ID cards and they don’t know how to get them. If the message related to voter ID cards is been spread with information of procedure then people will surely apply for it. I have seen people forgetting the documents required for the voter ID card application and in those times it will be handy if the social media app is having an account managed by the EC to reply the user with query then it will help them in getting the cards. Social media apps are effective and users are prone to use it when they are on move and hence the chance of grabbing the attention of user increases.  If some accounts related to voting details and query is been made along with sticker series of common man voting is been introduced then I would bet that voting percentage will surely shoot up. Engage the users in forwarding voting jokes and help them to motivate others. A single inspired voter will turn many others to vote and percentage will shoot up. So, use this tool effectively to run the efficient voting campaign.