Missing the ex – Is it natural?

After a broke up every one will suggest you to forget the ex and will ask you to have a fresh beginning. Well there is no issue with it and in fact it is always helpful in avoiding depression state. Some takes time to get a move on while some starts moving when they are in relationship. I always hear people saying that they miss the ex and they cry for them in the night. Most of the time people recall the habits of the ex or the liking and reveals that they are still in love with them. Personally speaking I don’t think so and it is because for me you don’t need help of any particular thing to remember someone.

 I too had gone this feeling and I find out that you miss someone when you are alone. It is not necessary that you miss someone only after the relation ends. Recently one of my friends had a break up and he is feeling helpless by the memories of his relationship. He is asking every individual that is it natural to remind her or I am being weak. Many of them are saying that you are weak and hence you are thinking in that manner otherwise there is no point in missing her. I don’t think the same, and in fact if he is not in this state then I will be surprised. He loved that girl and I think she will miss him too.

Missing someone after broke up is completely natural and I don’t think any person who feel love or affection never miss the person. It’s all about acting in real life. If you want the image of person who is unmoved by the feeling of pain then you need to pretend to be strong but if you are not then it is really a good thing to give time to this feeling. After all it is also a feeling and it deserve some precious moments of your life. So, miss your ex and try to remember the good memories so that you can smile even in the pain.