After
a long session of desolation, finally a ray of hope arrives! It is always a
beautiful feeling when you realize that the odd times are out and you can now
make fresh beginning. There are many in the world who finds it extremely hard
to overcome with the trauma and they try to resist the change. Unfortunately,
they cannot resist the change. I was also in that category and I was trying to
fix the issues to continue with the existing life but all my effort ended
without result.
Failure
does not cause any problem but the feelings afterward are the real cause of
misery. You feel completely lost and after every consulting session from your
family and friends, you start doubting on the abilities. Situation becomes
worst when you start reading motivational stories as you start considering
yourself as a de-motivated person. People do not know how to react in such
situation and then comes a either phase when person starts doing something
unexpected or start waiting for something to happen. In both the cases, he adopts
change.
Once
you prepare to adopt change, everything else starts falling to places. If you
continue your reluctance then you will extend your desolation period. I was a bit reluctant to change and
then I realized that I have to accept the fact everything else is changed and
now it is the time for me to change. I was living odds and once I added change,
everything evens out. It is simple maths add one to an odd number and it become
even. The only problem is that you have to pick which one you will add, as
every addition will have its own consequences. People may call it balancing the
life but I would rather prefer call it even out the odds. So if you are also facing the odds just search
for one element to add and even out the odds. You can also share your way of
dealing with odds so that I can also find one more way of dealing with odds and
I will use it in my life.
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