Talent-less toy

She asked her mommy to look the toy

Which the salesmen showed in coy

The toy was average not that great

He doesn't have flickering eye

He doesn't have mimicking effects

The body was unshaped

The cloths were old

But still the toy

Was waiting to be sold

He can't run, he can't fly

He looks ugly when he cry

Everything he tries to cover

But nothing about him impresses others

After looking for sometime

Her mom asked

Do you want that toy?

She rejected the offer and

Start her search for toys again

The toy was placed in box again

I felt pity for that talent-less toy

Until I find that I too was a talent-less toy

  

Even out the odds

After a long session of desolation, finally a ray of hope arrives! It is always a beautiful feeling when you realize that the odd times are out and you can now make fresh beginning. There are many in the world who finds it extremely hard to overcome with the trauma and they try to resist the change. Unfortunately, they cannot resist the change. I was also in that category and I was trying to fix the issues to continue with the existing life but all my effort ended without result. 

Failure does not cause any problem but the feelings afterward are the real cause of misery. You feel completely lost and after every consulting session from your family and friends, you start doubting on the abilities. Situation becomes worst when you start reading motivational stories as you start considering yourself as a de-motivated person. People do not know how to react in such situation and then comes a either phase when person starts doing something unexpected or start waiting for something to happen. In both the cases, he adopts change.

Once you prepare to adopt change, everything else starts falling to places. If you continue your reluctance then you will extend your desolation period. I was a bit reluctant to change and then I realized that I have to accept the fact everything else is changed and now it is the time for me to change. I was living odds and once I added change, everything evens out. It is simple maths add one to an odd number and it become even. The only problem is that you have to pick which one you will add, as every addition will have its own consequences. People may call it balancing the life but I would rather prefer call it even out the odds.  So if you are also facing the odds just search for one element to add and even out the odds. You can also share your way of dealing with odds so that I can also find one more way of dealing with odds and I will use it in my life.

Missing the ex – Is it natural?

After a broke up every one will suggest you to forget the ex and will ask you to have a fresh beginning. Well there is no issue with it and in fact it is always helpful in avoiding depression state. Some takes time to get a move on while some starts moving when they are in relationship. I always hear people saying that they miss the ex and they cry for them in the night. Most of the time people recall the habits of the ex or the liking and reveals that they are still in love with them. Personally speaking I don’t think so and it is because for me you don’t need help of any particular thing to remember someone.

 I too had gone this feeling and I find out that you miss someone when you are alone. It is not necessary that you miss someone only after the relation ends. Recently one of my friends had a break up and he is feeling helpless by the memories of his relationship. He is asking every individual that is it natural to remind her or I am being weak. Many of them are saying that you are weak and hence you are thinking in that manner otherwise there is no point in missing her. I don’t think the same, and in fact if he is not in this state then I will be surprised. He loved that girl and I think she will miss him too.

Missing someone after broke up is completely natural and I don’t think any person who feel love or affection never miss the person. It’s all about acting in real life. If you want the image of person who is unmoved by the feeling of pain then you need to pretend to be strong but if you are not then it is really a good thing to give time to this feeling. After all it is also a feeling and it deserve some precious moments of your life. So, miss your ex and try to remember the good memories so that you can smile even in the pain.