Hopeless love

Love is a beautiful feeling isn’t it? When you are in love you sense the cold winds blowing around you, violins are playing happy chords and more importantly you start reacting positively towards the world.  Everything is so beautiful when you are in love and lasts till the time the person is with you. But what if the person doesn’t want to be with you? What if he or she does not consider you as a soul mate? These are some feelings which are better left alone.

When you are in this feeling many of our close friends will suggest you to focus on other things and you too will try your level best to focus on the other things but the result will be a zero.  When you realize that your efforts are summing up to nothing then you are in deep desolation. You tend to start losing hopes and start thinking that there is nothing right can happen to you. The worst part of such situation is that your feelings grew stronger for the person.

If you are experiencing such situations and you do not want to reveal it to anyone then only option you have is to think about this misery. I know this is a foolish solution but I have seen it working many times. Once you spend a day or two in thinking about these feeling you either pissed off from it and a counter feeling of hatred is been developed or you become strong enough to overcome with these feelings. In both cases you will be in a state where all you have to do is to move on from the current life. So, don’t be afraid if you are in hopeless love state and just give sometime to this feeling as well. Who knows it will ends up making you a strong person.